Based on your signature you and your H were married for 3 years prior to having children. Did you work and bring in a stable income during the first three years?
You had mentioned in a previous post your H coaxed you to start a family and you happily obliged. Did the two of you ever have a specific discussion about you not working once your son arrived and how the family would be supported in a financial sense?
I am simply asking because it seems you and your H were on very different pages right off the bat regarding childcare and income based on the info you provided.
If the income issue is truly one of his real sources of unhappiness it seems odd he would rather shell out TWO incomes (one for his own life and apartment and one for you and the children). If he was struggling before it is odd to me that he doesn't seem to be struggling as much now despite the fact he has double the bills (two apartments).
