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Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married Allen A #1953991 03/08/10 05:42 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 438 4 4luv OP Member
OP 4luv Member 4 Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 438	Allen, WOW...very informative posts and YES I can see the parallel between my dad and husband. I have not explained infidelity as an addiction to my dad but will and I will talk to him and ask him to read Not Just Friends. I plan on talking to my dad tonight. Just to summarize my plan based on advice this is what I have (I am very much a planner and step oriented person...I am an engineer by trade :-)). I welcome any feedback: 1. Do not pursue husband. Keep up NC unless husband contacts me regarding son. 2. Do not argue or get baited into argument with husband. Listen like a therapist but offer nothing. 3. Go to FT alone first and pass information on regarding future appointments with husband. Make it his choice to attend sessions or not. 4. Get HUSBAND some POSITIVE male influences...my dad hopefully. 5. Encourage my dad to form a relationship with husband and treat him as he would an addict. Have dad SHOW husband what being a MAN is. Allen in one of your posts you said that husband is following the path of his father. This is sooo true and one of the things that was shocking and scary to husband when he was talking to his dad's ex-wife and she was telling him about his father. My biggest hurdle right now is to convince my dad to keep talking to my husband. My dad can be VERY stubborn but I will ask him to do it for me :-) Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo

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How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/01/10 09:14 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	undefeated	02/01/10 10:10 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	undefeated	02/01/10 10:34 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/01/10 10:56 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/01/10 11:00 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	whatisis	02/03/10 03:08 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	undefeated	02/03/10 06:20 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/05/10 08:03 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/07/10 12:57 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/07/10 01:27 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/07/10 01:28 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/07/10 04:45 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/07/10 07:08 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/15/10 05:07 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/15/10 05:43 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/15/10 10:49 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/16/10 04:05 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/16/10 04:48 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/20/10 02:34 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	chatterbug	02/20/10 02:59 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/21/10 12:44 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/22/10 06:37 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/22/10 06:55 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/22/10 07:21 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	02/22/10 08:38 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/24/10 12:09 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	newmama	02/24/10 04:35 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/24/10 01:01 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	newmama	02/24/10 05:29 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	02/27/10 12:25 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/27/10 03:28 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/27/10 03:34 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/27/10 03:37 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/27/10 04:14 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/01/10 04:26 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	chatterbug	03/01/10 04:46 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/01/10 05:16 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/01/10 05:19 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/01/10 06:04 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/01/10 06:19 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/03/10 04:24 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/03/10 06:14 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/03/10 12:29 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/03/10 05:30 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/03/10 05:58 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/03/10 06:37 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	marriedCrazy	03/03/10 06:44 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	mb28	03/03/10 07:21 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/03/10 07:25 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	mb28	03/03/10 07:41 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/03/10 08:06 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/03/10 08:35 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/03/10 09:53 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/03/10 11:24 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/04/10 03:35 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/04/10 03:40 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/04/10 03:42 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/04/10 03:46 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/05/10 07:12 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/05/10 08:01 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/06/10 04:31 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/06/10 07:21 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/06/10 08:41 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	mb28	03/07/10 03:35 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/07/10 04:41 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/07/10 10:04 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/07/10 10:49 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 04:04 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/08/10 04:12 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 04:41 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/08/10 04:52 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 05:02 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 05:03 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/08/10 05:42 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 06:15 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/08/10 06:48 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 07:15 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 07:23 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/08/10 07:23 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/08/10 07:32 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/08/10 07:40 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 07:59 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 08:08 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/08/10 08:24 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/08/10 08:25 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 03:06 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 03:39 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 03:45 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 03:58 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 04:04 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 04:47 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 05:10 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 05:13 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/09/10 12:03 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 03:03 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 03:08 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/09/10 03:26 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 03:47 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 03:51 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 07:05 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/09/10 07:15 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 07:20 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 07:25 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 07:28 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 07:36 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 07:40 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 08:14 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/09/10 08:55 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 09:04 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 04:14 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 04:28 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/11/10 04:29 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 04:56 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	WhatNow	03/11/10 05:09 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 05:24 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 05:30 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 05:43 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	WhatNow	03/11/10 05:45 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 05:50 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/11/10 06:54 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 12:37 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 12:39 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/12/10 12:47 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 12:51 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 12:53 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 12:59 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/12/10 01:11 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 01:16 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 01:26 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/12/10 01:40 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 02:08 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 02:11 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	WhatNow	03/12/10 02:21 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 03:01 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/12/10 03:02 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 03:04 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 03:06 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 03:14 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/12/10 07:05 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/13/10 03:27 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	03/13/10 05:07 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/13/10 06:40 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/17/10 05:44 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/17/10 05:57 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/17/10 06:07 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/17/10 06:46 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/17/10 07:07 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/17/10 07:18 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/17/10 07:33 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/17/10 07:36 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/17/10 07:38 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/17/10 07:50 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/19/10 01:24 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/19/10 01:33 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	4luv	03/19/10 01:40 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/19/10 01:42 AM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	WhatNow	03/17/10 07:48 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	WhatNow	03/17/10 06:23 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	03/09/10 03:45 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/24/10 06:08 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	mb28	02/24/10 06:32 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	02/24/10 06:36 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	jasper67	02/24/10 06:38 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/24/10 06:39 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	mb28	02/24/10 06:44 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	chatterbug	02/24/10 06:55 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/24/10 07:21 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	chatterbug	02/24/10 08:00 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/24/10 08:57 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	chatterbug	02/24/10 09:24 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	chatterbug	02/24/10 09:26 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Allen A	02/24/10 11:20 PM
Re: How (and who) to expose if OP is not married	Puppy Dog Tails	02/01/10 10:56 PM

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