that's just it, if you're aware of them and of the characteristics of the wayward that Allen gave in another thread (OIN)- you have no reason to mindread or overanalyze.
I wish I knew this stuff a few months back- and if you keep detached and w/ that inside knowledge about the flightiness, pessimistic, impulsive, negative, etc etc...all you have to do is rise above and not feed into it.
