How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Understood. I am getting it. Before I discovered DR book and this forum I read other materials that took a different approach which I can now see would be considered pursuit. I am just trying to break out of that mind set.

As I mentioned we are almost on month two of change and improving myself. I will be making calls today in attempts to find a good therapist.

I am willing to put the work and time in, just sometimes I start to panic because I feel like time is running out but I know by letting the panic set in I am being selfish and not pursuing my goal of becoming a better person.