Joie, I understand where you are coming from. I lived with the lies and hurt for so long. I fought so long to save my marriage, but eventually came to the conclusion that it takes two people to save a marriage, which he was not trying to do.
I have discovered being "single" is not such a bad thing. I'm to the point now I wonder if I would be able to live with someone again...lol. I'm sure if Mr. Right were to come along I may be able to do it.
You deserve so much more than he is giving you. I just don't understand how they can look you in they eye and tell lie after lie for so many years, but I lived it too.
Live life for you and your daughter. He needs to be accountable for his actions. You have tried so hard for so long. He is being a cake eater as my husband was for so long. It's just hard to accept it, when the person who promised to love and protect you does it.
Email me anytime you need to vent. I'm here for you. Life does get better. I'm living proof of that. It's so nice not walking on eggshells anymore.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
