YOU just need to be teh example of hope, be the wife he wants you to be... ust do NOT be AVAILABLE to him...

You be a good mom, wife, a good person while he watches... do NOT let him contact you.. just keep doing what you're doing and he will want to come back... but he has to go to a GOOD FT to do that.

I was thinking that if he IS stuck on this FT you might want to see if you can get an appointment with her too.. to size her up... waht do you thinik?

I don't at ALL like that two days after talkign to her all he had to say was that you two were destructive to each other and went to a lawyer for paperowrk... that is NOT indicattive of a GOOD FT... but... it may be advantagoius of you to find out mroe aobut this woman...

Right now she's ONLy hearing HIS side of your marriage...