My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I know he will not get help until he is ready to. Why would he want to get help now anyway? He is living his fantasy, care free life at his Mom's. He pretty much has no responsibility there and he can see and talk with the OW. Life is good for him....in the non-real world.

In case you couldn't tell, I am bitter and just pissed that he is doing this. I'm not sure where his rational thinking is. If he does bring up divorce again, I will tell him to write something up and I will show it to my lawyer. I don't know if he thinks I will or will not protect myself. This might scare him some or maybe just piss off his fantasy life