Doing the laundry that's THERE, you aren't pursuing, you are just being a good husband... ASKING her if she wants something cleaned is pursuing
Just cleaning what's THERE in the laundry room is all you need to do.
You invite her to walk teh dog with you? GOOD GOD MAN... can't you SEE that's pusuit? It's BLATANT pursuit.. why not ask her to renew your vows while shes' there?
LEAVE her ALONE
SHe NEEDS therapy, but she is NOT giong to GO until YOU do.. got it? If you want HER to act like an adult, you need to SET a GOOD EXAMPLE of it... and STOP PURSUING HER.. that is NOT adult behaviour, its childish and is NOT helping you
RE-Read divorce remedy... if you can't see inviting her to walk the dog is pursuit you didn't read that text carefully
Read Not Just Friends as well
I will see if I can find a few more titles for you