Section in the SSM that is freaking me out

[alamedamom]

There is a passage in the SSM decribing a woman who starved her husband to the point that her higher-need spouse lost all interest in *her* and filed for divorce. My husband now says he knows it's over because he has lost his 15-year attraction for me and wants out. Please someone tell me this doesn't mean it's too late! I actually had to tear that page out of the book because it was causing me so much distress.