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[mishka422]

The sooner the better GIMA. Don't let her do what my xh did. He was carrying clothes out of the house in front of our son and just told him he was leaving because he was confused. I told him to march his butt back in there and explain to him that he was leaving me for his adultery partner and make sure he knew it had nothing to do with him. He did, but with his tail tucked between his legs and basically mumbled my exact words back to our son. Sad.

She needs to be the one to put the words together, you need to be there to make sure she doesn't use some crap like, "Your dad and I just don't get along anymore." and "We just feel this is the best thing to do.". Don't let her make statements for your that you do not agree with.

IMO, you need to give the kids at LEAST 2 weeks notice before she moves out. Notice, I said SHE moves out. Don't you set one foot out of your home!