She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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meghunny it's something that's out of both our hands. it's like I said before we need to take this time to work on us. it sounds like we both know what we contributed or what may have failed in our marriage. Unfortunately, we don't fully understand what our spouse is thinking. We won't know until we're reunited with them.

we need to stay on course with our changes, feel better about us, and see what happens. I'm the one deployed and I wish I could call my wife, but I can't because I'm trying to not appear needy. i too made the beginning mistakes, and occasionally slip. It's been almost 3 months since the bomb was dropped on me. we've made baby steps, but it's clear the road ahead is long and rocky.

I truly feel for you, because like you I'm alone and away,s o I know how it feels. As far as the GAL's all i can really do is the gym. I've lost 30 pounds over here and have put on more muscle than I've had in years. I've also been reading self help books and web sites. I truly feel great about the changes I've made. I really like the person I am for the first time in years, possibly ever.

i just hope for the both of us that we get a chance to renew our marriages.