Yeah, i think that's going to be the toughest part about this week - knowing for sure his real motives IF he decides to come home. He sure is waiting until the last minute but I guess somebody this week is getting cut off cold turkey. I am glad for you that you will finally have some closure one way or another. You have gone thru a lot over the years with H. If he wants to commit 120% to you and the marriage this week, then great, but you do deserve someone who can give that to you. I even see it with my H where they want this other fantasy lifestyle (OW with yours and partying bachelor life with mine), but yet they don't want anyone to have us or raise their S's. H's therapist was trying to get thru to him that if he doesn't choose me, he has to let me go, but that's so difficult for them b/c they want it all. Well I think you definitely know what to do. If he does decide to come home, you'll just have to demand transparency, and he'll owe that much to you. You are definitely fighting hard until the end, and although it seems like it is going toward the D, we'll just have to see what the week holds...
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
