I have a question that I have been wondering about, maybe you can shed some light:
As I read, I learn that once the MLC'er comes out of replay he/she mourns/grieves the OW/OM?
When they drop the BOMB on us, we grieve/mourn the LOSS of the H/W we once knew and or the loss of the marriage.
Do THEY EVER grieve/mourn US? the LBS's? or are we are our 5,10,20+ years with them, something to them that is just not worth grieving?
I just find it ODD that they can be with this OW/OM for a period of 1,2,3 years or whatever the case is and when they decide to leave or are left, there is a mourning/grieving time for us to be aware of that they MUST go through....?
