Some questions.

Say if I do laundry and I wash her work uniform...would that be considered being courteous or pursuing?

I listen to what she has told and I know she has said the other day when she left for work 140 min early that she did not want to be in the house. It just appears she is depressed when she is home. Would it be pursuit to say "It's a nice day out want to take the dog for a walk/ride?" If i is OK to ask such a question I don't know when an opportune time would be because all she does is sleep most of the time when she is home.

I do have materials to read, that's is how I found this message board. Besides DB and DR what other books would any of you recommend?


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10