She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[Surviving03]

Man... I am so on your same page of emotions! It is so frustrating sometimes to read people situations and the similarities and listen to each of us realize what we were doing wrong in our M and it just makes me want to shake these spouses like wake up!!! we get it ok?? now lets fix it and be happy again!!

We are in such a tough position though... we know what this situation is like for us apart but we have that state of unknowing of what it is going to be like when we are together again... that is a scary feeling.

I feel the same way about either people who are happy or people who arent... I envy the people who are and the I pity the people who arent. My friend has been complaining to me about her husband and their issues and it drives me insane listening to it, I have said to her well you better figure out how to fix it or you will end up like me. Or I see some miserable couple with all sorts of issues and I just think if they can stay together what is our problem???!!

I hope you can find somethings to GAL over there, Im sure that is REALLY difficult being there. Maybe play some sports or volunteer for something. Its hard to have the motivation at all to want to do those things, but they say its what we should be doing....