WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

Today W stopped by to drop off some stuff and I was just getting out of the shower. We were talking about what our plans were for the day. I was at the top of the stairs in a towel, and she was down at the base of the steps. I came down to give her a hug and a kiss, just to show her I was happy to see her. She wouldn't let me kiss her on the lips. I told her I loved her, she said "I know you do" then kind of coldly, "Sorree".

I didn't take offense, just said in a cheerful way, "OK, have a good day", then went up to finish getting ready as she left.

I thought she might have been thinking I was trying to seduce her, which was not the case.

Then she called me a few minutes later to say she was sorry for acting like she did. That she felt uncomfortable with me in that state of dress. I told her no problem, I didn't think anything of it and I didn't mean to make her uncomfortable, and I didn't want her to think I was trying to get her to come upstairs with me.

She said "you wouldn't approach some random girl that way, and right now I'm feeling that I am that random girl". I told her "you're right, I wouldn't, I'm sorry".

She said "I wanted to call and tell you how I felt instead of stewing on it like I usually do". I told her I appreciated her calling.

Again, I don't want to get into her mind, but it is hard to tell whether she wants to "start over" and treat us like we are in a courting stage, or if she wants to distance herself and "just be platonic friends".

I guess I'm looking for some female perspective on this.