Well its been two days of NC and once I get through today that will be 3! This is the LONGEST I have gone with no contact with husband. I wish i could say that the NC is being initiated by me but he hasn't tried to contact me either. I guess we are both not initiating anything. Lucky for me the weather is GORGEOUS so that always makes the mood upbeat. The only time I did talk to husband was for 1 min yesterday when he called to see how son was and that was it.
I am looking forward to meeting with the counselor tomorrow.
Allen,
In regards to my father...I don't know. I have tried to get my dad to form a relationship with my husband which he was before all this started to happen. I am an only child and my dad does not take kindly to anyone treating me bad. My dad is VERY PROTECTIVE of his family. He has always sad that what should make a man happy is that his wife and children are happy. This is his motto so its hard for my dad to even sympathize or show anything towards my husband right now other than hurt, anger, and disappointment. I tried to tell my dad to keep in contact with my husband for some guidance but my dad just thinks I should stop thinking about husband and let him deal with his own mess. How do I convince my dad otherwise?
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo