Your list looks pretty good- I would rec. that most of those things take place w/in the FT appointments- as for his thinking, his actions, etc.

I only now realize how much damage my MC did w/ W and I- so take Allen's advice about a good- pro M FT.

I made my appt in a rush (poor decision), and when I asked her if she was pro-M...she said "I've never been asked that before."

Shame on me!!!

DARK