WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

Just got this from H and am fighting back tears and feel like getting sick...

"You and I have come to an impass, and your right how could we possibly make decision in regards to our children when we especially me cannot be cival.

I will no long presue this joint custody issue with you at this time. Until which time you and I can be cival with one another. I do ask you if your willing to send me a I guess I can refer to it as a update weekly on major issues or accomplishments that our children have. The day to day decision making I will not interfer in. I trust your judgement.

Now as a curtousy to you I will explain my intensions and plans for the future. The divorce papers have been filed. Yes our children met OW 2 weekends ago. I say to you this OW is apart of my life now and my children always will be, you need not worry that I would do anything to harm or confuse our kids, all I did was introduce her as daddys friend , nothing more I did not act in a inappropriate manner with them in my care nor will I ever. As for my plans in aug I will be moving to the us until which time OW can find a job in canada.

At which time her and I will be returning to Canada as for my visitation with our kids, the first few months after I move will be busy as I have to seek employment there so I may not be able to take the kids as often as I like but as soon as I do find work I will fully resume our verbal argreement of taking them every second weekend, this will take place in Canada until which time you and I can agree upon longer visits.

No more harsh words, I will respect you as long as you respect me.


Our kids come first!"

My heart is breaking to see the plans in black and white... So much for being detached.. OMG.. she's staying with him.. and going to relocate for him???

I feel like I've lost everything again.. best friend... soul mate.. lover..

I'm trying not to fall to pieces cuz I'm at work but it hurts so darned much I can't stop crying...

I didn't think he could file D without the custody and separation agreement in place... could he be just trying to hurt me by faking all of the above?

I'm hurting sooo much right now I can't breathe!