Bought some flowers for my aunt who turned 72 on Saturday and decided to buy some for NGF as well. D9 picked out all the flowers. The florist mentionned that she had expensive tastes...well there goes the apple again. Also noticed that D9 gets a little sour when she does not get what she wants...not saying it is exagerated but agian something I need to perhaps monitor. All in all I had a great week off with D9 and spent some qualty time with NGF as well. Well Aprl 5th marks our first anniversary so it is time I drop the N.... GF is talking more and more about the future and since I am a guy it scares me a little. I am ok with our living arrangements and have no intention of changing them anytime soon. It is amazing how quickly we adapt and how intoxicating doing what you want when you want (more or less) can become. In the past I never understood folks who loved living alone (like one of my buddies, the low expectations guy)...today, I can see the merits. I know another guy (62) who has the same girlfriend for 20 years and they never moved in togather. They see each other, vacation together etc. but just never shacked up. Maybe that is the secret. Or perhaps some folks would argue that they are not in love. Speaking of which GF must have broken the record for saying I love you this weekend....those flowers and her LL (physical touch) must have done the trick.
Just thought about something whil reading Mike's post:
XW has not talked to her dad in over a year....she is now not talking to hermom either (although I do not balme her on that one even if I do not know the details) and she has not been on good terms with one of her sisters for a couple of years. She walked away from her marriage as you all know and has split up with her business partner. Of course none of it is her fault....but she is buying a new car!!! a convertible Audi S5....beautiful car.....although she may use the convertible roof two months a year up here....but hey ... she will look good...One thing is certain, she will always spend at least as much as she makes.
I have not posted in a while. Things are good...ealry golf season for us up here (1 month ahead of schedule and no winter damage). D9 doing good. GF still loves me in spite of the fact that I do not cuddle enough. Which brings me to my question for you boys and girls: What is the deal with post sexual act cuddling??? ok, I am not saying roll over and go to sleep or worse go watch TV, however, how much is "normal"? I am starting a poll....boys and girls ....be honest. i will say that 10 minutes is my max.....remember this is post you know what...not pre.
For me, post-cuddling for 5-10 minutes is good. Then let me roll over and get comfortable to sleep! I have never been good at "spooning" or whatever for long periods of time, I can't get comfy to sleep that way. So ten minutes would be plenty...
Hey BBJ..it looks like you are the only ...one reading. Not much on my inpromtu survey.
Easter weekend went well. Nothing major to report..... I guess I am not affected by things like I used to. Remeber negative angry John? Well things have a way of settling down. The only "real" negative that has come out of all this is the fact that I do not see my daughter as often as I would like.
Ok John, I read your question/poll: I say until you both fall asleep. However long that may take. I love to cuddle and spooning or even laying curled up next to my guy laying my head on his shoulder.
Oh just think I will get to do that soon!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
