It's done. I took Greek's advice and told her that if OM was too much of a coward to tell his wife that I would. My wife said he'd already told her. So that's done. She says they're "trying to figure it out." Whatever, I don't really care about his relationship.
Regardless, my W says she'd rather be alone than with me. She moved more stuff out. I was going to attend an event with her this coming weekend, and on the 19th, but I think I'll skip those. I'll let her contact me for house/bills stuff, but I'm through chasing her. I'm moving on with my life. If she ever comes back, great, we'll see what happens. If not I won't pine for her forever. Every day gets a little better. Time to get back to being myself again. Hardest part is remembering how to be single after 12 years.
