How to approach W about OM

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I am not a master at this DB thing but I am a woman. My instinct as a woman to your question above is to not be available to talk. Right now you need to give your wife space EVEN if she initiates the talk. Especially if she approaches you saying "ready to talk to me." Heck no, if you happen to be around the house say now is not a good time you were on your way out and then get dressed and go do something (gym, coffee shop, SOMETHING!). When a woman wants to talk, WE TALK AND WE START THE CONVERSATION! Women LOVE TO TALK :-) and we basically know that MEN HATE TO TALK.

Also, you need to start your therapy sessions ASAP!