How to approach W about OM

[Allen A]

She definitely needs to see YOU do some WORK on YOU...

And if you are PURSUING HER, you arne't working on YOU.. you're working HER instead...

the ONLY way you can work on her, is by working on YOU...

UNTIL she's working on herself, she's vulnerable to OM, so keep him away from her... good stuff there

Keep up the contact with OMW, good stuff.. always keep her in the loop.

I would also send those two some flowers... to BOTH of them.. telling them sorry to hear you two are having trouble, I hope for all the best.. etc

Send the COUPLE some flowers as a small gift to inspire some hope for them, AND to show them how ADULT you are... got it?