I'm slightly pissed/irratated this morning and a bit unsettled...
I guess I discovered that Kim has once again sent out invitations to my family for Caleigh's birthday party next weekend..even after she was told that the parties would be separate. I sent her a gentle reminder via email this morning and asked her to stop once again and that i thought the invitations being sent not only kept things confused for Caleigh but also resulted in guilty feelings for my mother...who quite frankly..has been through enough the last 2-3 years....I also told her of my plans to remarry sometime this year....Kim's reply was that if my family wanted her to stop sending the invites then she would..and that she was getting married in September...my reply to her was "then stop" and congrats on the wedding...I told Michele about the email exchange and Michele got a little upset about Kim saying she was getting married...Michele's oldest daughter also got upset and they both said they don't believe it...my response was.."i could care less as long is caleigh is taken care of"..If Caleigh is not taken care of then I have issues..
women here may have a take on all the above...bottom line..I could care less if Kim gets remarried...good for her..I don't give any thought to any of that simply because I don't keep up with Kim's personal business..it's none of my business and I see no point in allowing her to have any "power" over me by allowing my mind or thoughts to go there...I guess i am also a bit puzzled over why Michele might allow herself to be affected by kim saying she was getting married this year..maybe she thinks Kim is "stealing our thunder" or something...
number 2---anybody have any experience with 12 year old girls..particularly 12 year olds who have started blaming Fiancee's(Me) for taking time away from her/and her mom...who have abandonement issues and think that me coming in and marrying her mom will result with me leaving after a period of time and abandoning them...who..is happy with the way things are one minute and absolutely throwing a fit the next??? Michele and I both think this is just the 12 year old going through a stage and being 12...
thoughts...questions...drinks..or humor..I'll take what i can get..thanks all
