How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

You are right I did panic. I read your post but I can't retype to prove such b/c I am posting from a phone.

Her tone was pleasant this morning and I have not heard her talk to me like that in a while and I fell for it. I will not bring up the conversation with her again.

After I made my last post I had to get ready to run some errands and she became interested in what I was doing and where I was going.

The last thing I want to do is mess this up and I feel so fortunate she is still here and yes I panic.

I spoke with omw she said that her and om spend all day together yesterday. I also learned the brief convo my w and om had yesterday was om telling my wife "I told you we can't talk any more enough is enough. My wife is not playing, I don't even want to wave hi anymore"

Thanks again for the advice sorry if it seems like I am not getting it. My emotions are getting the best of me. I am looking for a good therapist in my area.