1- you have a HUGE advantage, as W is in the home 2- if she walks- it WILL be your fault for doing what you're doing
I DID THAT MYSELF- that's why I know what you're doing won't work. It sounds super easy, to just work on yourself...I know it doesn't seem that way b/c there is so much "uncertainty".
Look at it this way- how uncertain is it if she's there at the house?
Assume that she's somewhat willing to work on things b/c she's there...but do not hold the expectation...
He;''s also correct that you are panicking.
To this day, my mind tells me there is something I can say to W to bring her back- WRONG- I've tried everything and NONE of it worked.
DO NOT DO WHAT I DID- focus on yourself, fake the confidence in your M if you have to...and follow ALLENS ADVICE
