Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

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Because he wants his cake and to eat it too. I doesn't want to give up the comfortable family life and doesn't want to give up his freedom. This is a guy's take on this. He needs to understand the full ramifications of his actions and choices and it sounds like you need to move forward and GAL--think about it either way you win if you make your own life for yourself. If it works out with hubby ultimately then you are still a better person for it and if it doesn't you are a better person.

Hang in there. It gets better. It has to. You will still have good and bad days. The game plan is to have fewer and fewer bad days with less frequency. Work out--exercise. It will be tough for you.

Thanks
Scott