Think the financial stuff is the first crack in the fantasy. The funny things is I offered my W the same opportunities and resources I've used to grow. Books, classes, audio books, etc. and she turned them all down or didn't follow up. As a result she's in the same spot she was a year, two years, etc.
Last thing I offered her was a paid for dave ramesy class. Her response "I can't understand any of that financial stuff. Its to complicated." sigh.
If you haven't looked into FPU do that. Its simple straight forward common sense financial management.
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