I'm going to dedicate at least the next TWO YEARS solely to my kids and am not interested in any sort of intimacy or relationship with ANYONE. I consider my prime directive at this moment to be fatherhood. All women (gay dudes too) are welcome to take a number. I'll be with y'all *real soon now*.
two years is not really "real soon" and you may find it will be a greater turn off than selling point to both members of the opposite sex or the gay men that you wish to attract.
men and women alike a sexual creatures. if you forego sex and intimacy for an extended period of time like that, the "Kate Winslet's" of the world may be apprehensive to get involved. they may not understand what your intentions were. you will carry an aura of sexlessness; the chemicals associated with attraction, testosterone, pheromones etc, will have been inactive and supressed and will need to be jump started. your technique will suffer. how would you exercise your jaw muscles otherwise?
getting out of a sexual slump is not always the easiest thing to do for men. observe some friday night the men that leave the bar alone. its been a long drought for many of them. then observe the men surrounded by a group of girls. girls hanging from their neck, girls dancing around them, squatting and singing "Come here rude boy, boy, can you get it up? Come here rude boy, boy, is you big enough? Take it, take it, baby, baby Take it, take it, ..." if you want to know the truth, it was their friend who told her how great in bed he is.
Kick your wife to the curb; keep her because its cheaper. not sure if it matters. but i would hate to see you do something as drastic as self-imposed celibacy because of a bad decision to marry the wrong person.
