repeat after me, there is no perfect M b/c there are no perfect people!!
There is no perfect M, because there are no perfect people!!
Got it. It's a great point, gima. I spent the first month or so of my sitch taking all the blame on myself. Lately my W's problems have been so ... well pronounced, that I worry that I've focused too much on them. I do need to protect the family.
One of my good friends, one that calls several times a week just to see how I'm doing, mentioned to me Friday that he thought I talked about W too much, and that it takes two to make a marriage fail. It hurt hearing him say that, but I realized that I had been venting too much to him, and he didn't know my inner turmoil and grief over my failures.
I need to spend more time on ME, GAL, etc. Less on W and the divorce.
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