Another convo with H last night. It was pretty much the same thing as Fri night. However, this time he started crying which is not like my H at all. Again here are some things he said:
H: It's hopeless, I have no hope that it will ever work H: I'm broken, and I don't know if I'll ever be ok H: I can't come back, yet I can't seem to let go H: I'm hurting you and you will resent me for it, that is why it will never work. H: I've buitl this wall around me, and I don't know if it will ever come down.
Again, I didn't get emotional, I validated some points and gave no response to others. And then I ended the convo instead of him.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10