Another convo with H last night. It was pretty much the same thing as Fri night. However, this time he started crying which is not like my H at all. Again here are some things he said:

H: It's hopeless, I have no hope that it will ever work
H: I'm broken, and I don't know if I'll ever be ok
H: I can't come back, yet I can't seem to let go
H: I'm hurting you and you will resent me for it, that is why it will never work.
H: I've buitl this wall around me, and I don't know if it will ever come down.

Again, I didn't get emotional, I validated some points and gave no response to others. And then I ended the convo instead of him.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10