You haven't even got the terms correct in your situation...
You are the betrayed spouse, not the walk away spouse.
Glad to see you finally taking a tough stance now. Doesn't matter if you have someone else or not. What matters is that you are now giving your WAW a dose of her own medicine. I believe that one of the reasons she thinks you have another woman is because she knows that she has done the same thing to you when she told you she didn't love you. She is only projecting what she was thinking. If that wasn't the case, she would be more likely to think the reason you wanted out were more along the same reasons she wanted out. If she didn't have another man when she wanted out, then she wouldn't be instantly defaulting to you having another woman now that you do want out.
