I have great respect for you my dear. One of the hardest things in life is to know when time comes, which bridge to cross and which to burn.
I would hate it for you, to be the "I love you and I need a place to stay" solution for your H. Because it sounds like that is what you are. I thought he was between places trying to figure out what to do. I believe now he is only doing what suits HIM. Do you think he would be considering coming home to you if OW had her own apartment?
If he has been like this for years, what makes you think he is going to change now? I am sorry if I sound negative, you've been through a lot in your life, you deserve the best, you are young and smart, dont sell yourself short. xxxx K
