That is exactly it. He wants you to say go ahead and do it. Just keep on the DB path. For some it works, for some it doesn't, but for everyone it makes you a stronger and better person because you work on you. Just let him keep letting off steam, but don't respond or just say I understand what you are saying. If he really wanted a D he would have done it by now.
Stay strong
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