Don't write anything. The bomb was only a month ago. Keep being dark. Let him contact you. You're getting there as far as getting it, but you're not all the way yet. You don't get that going dark means no contact. Let him worry about you. He EXPECTS you to call him, to beg him, to plead with him. Snap the safety net. He thinks he knows you so well. Time to change his mind.
How are you doing on GALing? When's the last time you let loose and had a REALLY good time?
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.