when I have been terrified to listen to WH as he talked about divorce, when I wanted to bash his head in when I saw him, when I hated GALing, I pretended to be brave, pretended I had control over my emotions, pretended to enjoy getting out. And low and behold, I actually became braver, in control of my emotions and like doing new things!
So to me, Fake it til you make it isn't saying to be a PERMANENT faker- it is a just a mind trick you play on yourself to get the nerve to really do it!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
