Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I thankyou Trusting, yes may the calmness continue On another note I have to say I have had the most amazing 2hours with ex today for a long long time, 5 years or more to be exact. son asked me if I would go along and watch his rugby match today and also that son and I could go for lunch together afterwards, I text ex and told him son wished me to go, more out of politeness as I didnt just want him thinking I was being bold and turning up during the time ex and son spend together, anyhow he said it was ok so off i went. on arrival at the match ex came over and we chatted for the whole of the game, just like old times laughing and joking and it was just as if we had never been apart, I also took note of the fact that ex asked about all my family, if they were ok, if they were still working in the same places etc, he asked about old friends, he wanted to know where and when I was taking son away to, this he asked as if you recall previously he had wanted some dates from me and on the list I just put that son was unavailable on certain dates due to vacations, he also questioned that on our main holiday was there just son and I going. all very interesting I thought that he is now wanting to now all the answers to these kind of questions. after the match ex left and son and I left to go to a nearby eatery for out lunch, on arriving at the bus stop for our bus journey home who should appear but ex, he was in the pub nearby with wifey and come to see if we were alright for getting home and if our lunch had been nice, he even invited us in for a drink with him and wifey before we caught the bus, very nice of him but a big no no on my behalf. I also noticed throughout our time together how ex was more relaxed and was also making lots of eye contact and even looking at me when I wasnt looking at him, so thats it folks a very interesting morning and glad to say it was a good one, and yes I did enjoy ex's company for the entire game, but not looking into this for any intents and purposes just wanting to fill you all in on todays happenings, x
Rather interesting. He does appear to be wakening. What gives with the invitation to have drinks with wifey though? Good grief! I guess he's not that awake yet.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Thanks for your replies, yes I could agree and think that ex is wakening up a little, but then again he could of just beeen having a good day, either way he enjoyed my company and I enjoyed his. Beingme, I am unsure if it was both of us or just son that he was inviting in for a drink as I wasnt really looking at him, but I know he was looking at my face when he said it, I know one hundred percent that I will never ever have a drink with wifey or be social with her at any point in any situation, maybe he was wanting us to be all one big happy family, no way, x
My ex once stated that he can't wait till we all vacation together, me and the kids, ex and other woman. Wouldn't that be a hoot.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Well folks I am well and truly shocked now, ex picked son up for tea and onto rugby training last night, son was late back but just texted me and let me know he was ok just sorting something out, when he came home he ran upstairs and hid something, well curiosity kills the cat so to speak so I have snooped, and ex as been shopping with son after rugby to buy me a mothers day card and present, I am in total shock, ex always used to take son shopping for cards and presents for me, but as soon as he walked he didnt even give son money to buy me a card, so my mother took the job on, well I suppose it is an improvement, let the calmness and niceness last and improve I say x
