Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

and if he can't agree to do the above then I can't agree to stay married to him. DEAD SERIOUS!!!

I just want the option to R...and then will see if he actually has what it takes to do it.

I have learned that if I had to I could be a single mom. I don't like it and it is hard.

But I think anyone that wants kids should prepare themselves for that possibility because their spouse could die...not necessarily just because they could divorce them. I was naive and never really thought of that possibility (either or) and wish I did before agreeing to have a child but I am grateful I have S!!