YOU ARE SO RIGHT.... I didn't have any contact with him today at all. NONE what so ever. Very proud of myself and I plan to do the same again tomorrow. I am going to leave the ball in his court and let him come to me and see what happens.
It is just so frustrating when I tell him we need to spend more time together. Which we haven't done for the last 2-3 years. We've worked opposite schedules and definately not made our time together a priority. He says that it shouldn't make a difference. WTF, it does make a difference.
I really wish this nightmare would be over but what doesn't break you makes you stronger, right?
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present