Jstar, I am curious as to why you married, but did not sponsor for resident alien status for h. It seems that you created a very unstable, squirrelly sitch from the get-go. Why?
You keep having kids now, and have no way to go after their father for child support or spousal maintenance in any effective legal way. Again, why?
This is really an impossible situation with no real legal recourse since the marriage is not really legit within the U.S.
