Sigh. What part about 'no contact' does she not understand?? What a wench.
I'm glad that your H told you about it and didn't open the message. Do you have access to his email? As Puppy likes to say, trust but verify. I have a feeling that she might try it again and I'd want to know that your H's curiosity doesn't get the better of him.
And I'm so proud of you for talking yourself through it!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g