"Fake it till you make it" and "Act as if" are core DB principles.
But I do agree that these principles don't work very well in most cases.
D'oh. I stand corrected. That is in the book. I have generally followed the principles recommended in the forums though that faking change is bad and that's where my thinking was coming from. I have to agree with the original poster, faking is bad. Anything you do has to be real.
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