Do NOT pursue under any circumstances... THAT will come across as controlling...
The fact that she' didn't tell you about what is pretty sick on her part in my opinion...
Just keep yourself busy... Whatever she says, just hold back and don't commit to anything...
If she says she's moving out, say nothing... just get up and walk out of the room
I suspect she's going to try to provoke a fight, mb28 can tell you about those games for sure... just get OUT of the room if it gets difficult...
You do NOT have to subject yourself to her games...
She is already playing a game with you, she offers you up some ominous "we have to talk and leaves YOU on the defensive all day long.. That's sick... In the future do not accept ominous threats like that, its a head game... she wants YOU stressed out all day and on the defensive... it makes her feel like she's got some sick power over you
Don't let it get to you... remember whatever she say's, its NOT bad. what you DO with it is where it goes...
What you DO with her choices is what makes or breaks a marriage... its in YOUR hands
