OldPilot yes it's a service type firm, servicing the corporate sector. WH provides the service and I do the business management, accounting and now also sales, since we need to drum-up more business. WH has been disenchanted with his work (life) since 2008 (MLC) and really started to slack when his affair started in April 09.

I found out about OW in September 09. Since then both of us are preoccupied with our personal troubles and the business continues to suffer. It was kind of running on it's own steam for a while, but combined with the economy the work has pretty much dried up. If something doesn't change very soon we will go under. That's why it's so frustrating, WH thinks that everything will be OK and the business will recover (he seems to have no sense of reality) It's not going to happen by itself when he spends 2 weeks out of every month away visiting OW @##$@!

We still have joint finances, checking accounts, credit cards, lines of credit... everything. So far I trust him not to abuse it, he seems to be consciences about spending. The OW pays for everything when he goes there, she even paid for Valentines dinner and for his flight ticket. It's not like him to have a woman pay for him, but then again, HE is not HIM these days.

I do all the books for business and personal, so I know what's going on. Unless he opened new credit cards and the bills are coming to his apartment. Well as I said, so far I have no reason not to trust him about that.

Last edited by Mila; 03/08/10 05:13 AM.
M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO