Fast track to her divorcing me

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Yes, I know about the love potion. It served its purpose but I never stopped loving her. Even today. Now not sure if she did or not.

Well Cautious I really do not know. I really think she has issues. But she refused to go to MC MD etc.

I did not want to bring this up in here and this will be the first time I posted this but when we first married she told me he was sexually abusive to her.

So I guess I still can not fathom why she did the name change back to his family name. And yes I know that you can still love somebody that has abused you. But I have never done anything like that to her so my own logic fails me.

The only other thing I can think of is that she is thinking of an old lover that remembers her with that name. Maybe she is hoping he will find her via facebook. Who the hell knows honestly.

This part of our divorce still bothers me a lot though as you can tell.

I just do not get why she did this. I know I need to get over it but it still bothers me to an extent. She will probably never tell me.

At first I thought she did it simply to hurt me. Could you imgine somebody changing their name for the rest of their life just to hurt somebody that they alegedly loved before? WTH?!?

Im all ears for any WAW to come in here and explain the name change logic to me. My own man logic escapes me.