From the blog of Susan J. Elliott, author of Getting Past Your Breakup:
"But above all else: forget this person you fell in love with. They are never coming back. The person who LEFT YOU is more in line with who this person REALLY is than the person you fell in love with."
Susan J. Elliott
I saw that on your thread. The hard part is admitting to myself that THAT woman has been gone for a while. And, realizing she could be someone she really wasn't for many years.
So, the difficulty is in realizing that a large part of my M was really just a lie. That's being a bit over the top, but it's true.
