MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Hi HB! I would be thrilled to have you peeking in on me from time to time and know that I do take everyones advice to heart! I did read your reply and saw that the thread was locked and wasn't sure how to find you to thank you! Yes, I guess I am a "curious george"! I just want to understand! I know that I may never "understand" but it has surely helped me see that what is happening is not ALL my fault! I am in the process of reading other threads and am still so amazed at how they all seem to follow the same script! Some have OP's, some have WAS's, but are basically the same! To me, understanding=healing.

I asked you about H's oldest (my SS) because he is hurting too! H's sister has tried contacting him and he has ignored her. I know that "I" have to step back but the "fix it" person in me wants to make things better for everyone else!

I am thankful that I don't seem to have all the drama that many of these posters seem to have with their spouses! Sometimes I wish that we had more contact but see from reading other's posts that the n/c thing seems to be a good thing!

I will admit that I have thought about the fact that I could also go thru a MLC of my own with menopause coming up and it wouldn't surprise me if it happened about the time H comes out of his....lol!

I look forward to your thoughts and advice from you and all of the others on here. My thread does not seem to draw a lot of attention but am so grateful for all of the people that do stop by and the encouragement or 2x4's I that I receive!

The life of a truck driver must be very intersting!!! Thankyou again for taking the time to help to share your experiences!!!