I will if I haven't heard anything by next weekend. I didn't really expect to have completed papers yet- but I thought stbxH would have at least called his L to get things started (I think I can call him that now!).
My atty had suggested letting stbxH make the opening bid to save me time and aggravation. But if he won't, I won't hesitate to do so myself. I'm just surprised by stbxH- I thought he would have jumped when I gave him the go-ahead. He's the one who last month said there was no saving this M.
One positive note- I reconnected with friend last night. We hadn't talked in a long time (almost two years, I think), but I called her last night and we talked for 104 minutes... lots of catching up to do!