I need some opinions on a thought I just had. I'm deployed and I'm doing the NC or limited contact with my wife unless she contacts me, or she tells me to call. Would you consider this a form of seperation?

Since I've began doing this, we've had more conversations. We rarely talk about the stich, just the kids and other things going on. Since I started giving her more space, she seems to be more cooperative. She's stopped being mean and agry, and started to be more neautral.

I was just wondering if I could sort of count this as part of the seperation?


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept