Thanks for the tip on Mars/Venus on a date. I've ordered it and depending on the mail I should receive it by the end of this week.
I found that web-site/message board (you're right it is yucky) but there's some good stuff on there and I'll sign up and start posting. V. good insights for me, particularly that stuff around how men and women deal so differently with the "attraction" stage.
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One more thing...isn't there any man who IS available who may be right under your nose, maybe someone you haven't even thought of, someone who may have a crush on you but you didn't really pay him much attention...at work or near your home or...anywhere?
Funny you should mention that. There are 2 men here who have been asking me out. I went out with one of them at the weekend. It was OK. He’s a nice guy. Not the same sort of spark as with Mr Unavailable, but comfortable. He’s asked me to the theatre later this week and I’ll go (but to be honest, I’m making myself because I know it’s good for me, not because I’m really into him).
Thank you for the time you’ve taken to post to me. I really appreciate it … and I am really learning.
